Life and Me... Memoirs of a church girl

Sometimes we do not understand the value of the people God brings our way and their purpose. Some are Indomie instant noodles, short and sweet like dessert and some are like pre booked al carte fancy restaurant meals. They are for special occasion with fine silver ware and matching plates. But there are some that are constant like Agege bread, never going out of style. They can go with beans, oil, coke, butter, jam, depending on how you feel. For people that have a lot of people walking through their lives under different titles, you get to sense the extra in people and celebrate it.  In my life I have encouragers, those kind of friends that stick with you, your ride or die and I also have some hybrids. In business we are ride or die, in other areas we are like night and day. The important thing is to know where each fits and appreciate their uniqueness.  I have some friends that validated my childhood dreams, they developed my sense of adventure that everyt...

So i love looking at wedding pictures. For me its a beautiful thing to see all the effort put into creating new beginnings.  Particularly love wedding photographers because you must be a beautiful person to be able to capture most of the emotions that go into the whole event.  The way it is solemn and beautiful at the same time, the exchange of vows, the preparation to lose yourself and identity to someone else.  The selflessness of being willing to share your life with someone that you have no guarantee will turn out alright but you just believe that as long as there's you it is fine.  The loss of a parent that gives away a child, you can never tell if your child just brought home a paedophile or an insane person and is passing some weird heritage into your lineage, i mean their children will be your grandchildren. But you have to trust that on the dark and gloomy days they will have each other and they will be enough. The couple that says the vo...